Thanks for the feedback. I think semantics matter. What I struggle with is important. I think this makes it very difficult to I’d edify a reasonable short list of must do items. Too many things are « important « , say having lunch with colleagues. Perhaps you could try redefining Eisenhower’s top Audra the into urgent/not optional and may be that list will shrink? And then accept that many important things will just not get done and that as long as you do plenty of those then you’ll be fine.